In those days I met a friend who had not seen for many years, and we talk about ask "So, how to be married?"
She thinks for a bit 'and I says:
"This is no Prince Charming. But I've always been a practice, you know: he was one that was good for me and one that I was good for him."
This makes me think. Of 10 couples who married in recent years and which are fairly close to hear inside information 8 were married for convenience or compromise, and only 20% for love.
Mind you, I do not say that you love her when have decided to marry, but to encourage them to take this step have been a residence permit, favorable economic conditions for married couples, the arrival of a child is not expected, the fear of being alone or pressured by others, and only after sex.
In a couple I know it was you who took the initiative, and the statement was more or less "I am 8 years we been together, or we get married or we leave."
Okay, let's say that I am too strict, we say that couples who have decided to get married first because you are loved more. Let's say 30 or 40%. But if even as much as 50 it seems to me, however little.
songs, novels and movies make us dream we are taught from an early age to seek a soul mate, the other half of the apple and the butterflies in the stomach.
Verses beautiful touch us so much to listen to them endlessly and write diaries, stories of love that lasts 2 hours on TV affect us so much to make us cry and wish they could suffer the same, one day.
But at some point most of us lose hope and the desire to find and choose the easy solution, no tears and passion: a piece of paper divided into pro and against, and if the pro have at least one more voice is Yes.
Let the others to burn, and is content to a safe haven.
But what happened to love?
But at some point most of us lose hope and the desire to find and choose the easy solution, no tears and passion: a piece of paper divided into pro and against, and if the pro have at least one more voice is Yes.
Let the others to burn, and is content to a safe haven.
But what happened to love?
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